It is my girlfriend birthday in a couple of weeks, we have been in a relationship for a year and would like to buy her a sex toy, but she is quite shy and conservative, so I would like to get her something discreet, that is unlikely to offend or insinuate that I am some kind of sex crazed boyfriend who us wanting her to be more sexual. Nothing extreme or fetish. Just recommendations of good sex toy for beginners that would make a good sex toy gift for her. Thank you for any advice and product suggestions.